The concept of ‘Your 50%’ is all about taking responsibility for you. Taking responsibility for what you can find, fix, change, and own up to to create more flow in your life.
It particularly comes up when you are in conversation with others where you want to:
- blame someone else
- feel shame about something
- feel guilty about something
- ultimately not own your 50% part of the problem
So, if there is 100% energy or ownership of something in a conversation, 50% of that was created by you.
You might have created it to:
- be a lesson for you,
- learn something from it
- be empowered by it
Whatever it is, there is 50% of it there that is on you. To own it, allows you to move forward.
Nothing is just completely up to chance.
We often send out a wish to the universe that we are going to get lots of clients or great income coming in, or whatever your wish might be. BUT just leaving it out there like that isnt what it takes. There is an actionable step in there to be taken… aka your 50%.
Where can you step up 50%?
How can you own your 50% in what you want to go and get or achieve?
How can you own your 50% where you might have been in a conversation with somebody and you haven’t owned your part in what’s happening?
What comes to mind with me is, my husband and I run our business together, and nearly always we get to the end of the month and I have to check the numbers and talk to the bookkeeper about it, and then we all get together and talk about where things are at. Many months I forget to hand in my receipts and I’ve just started doing it to stay in integrity but the conversations that we had started getting a little heated and messy. Which led onto more conversations after that that were also a bit messy, until I owned up to my 50%.
My 50% is that I don’t hand my receipts in on time and that I don’t particularly like looking at the numbers.
I said this to my husband and he didn’t realise that this was the cause behind the whole ordeal.
Until I could voice my 50% it didn’t get cleared. As soon as it got cleared, I could show up so much more frequently to hand in my receipts on time and be comfortable with looking at the numbers.
Another example is recently I lost somewhere and I was wandering around thinking “maybe the Universe is just looking after me”…
This is the thing we always do with money, patients, or business… “Maybe the Universe is looking after me” or “the patients arent showing up today” or “they’ve just cancelled, grrrr” …
In those moments blame, shame, and guilt show up.
If you notice, it’s at this point that your flow stops.
Instead, OWN the 50% that you have contributed to the situation and what you can do about it.
In that moment when I got lost, I got my phone out and checked on the map where I was, and realised that we have all of these resources available to us, especially Google, so you (and I) can absolutely figure anything out.
Whatever is happening with you, you can figure it out.
So where can you own your 50% today in something that has been a challenge for you?
And, where can you own your 50% where you can actually show up in a way that you havent before?
This is a lot about responsibility and reaction.
Where can you own your responsibility so that you can create more flow in your life, compared to halting the flow by not owning your part?
The woo-woo side of it is that we create every single event in our lives. Every single one. We choose it. We are co-creating our lives all the time. Even the challenging bits you have had a role in inviting that into your life.
BUT at the end of the day, it’s what you do with it.
So, how can you shift through your challenges today by owning your 50%?
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